What’s With All The Hate?

A popular M.E. patient activist reposted an epic troll comment, in which she was vilified, on her Facebook page last night. (Purposely not linked) Trolls are everywhere and the comment, though particularly eloquently vicious, was not that surprising. The fact it was made in the first place is what strikes me and leads me to these thoughts:

We are not the first patient community to face public ridicule but, in this age of no bully, no hate movements everywhere, why is it still continuing?  Why it is okay to ridicule an incurable, life-devastating disease and the people who suffer from it? How is that not hate and why aren’t the decent people in the world stepping up to stop it?

I get why it is happening–the public has never been given an honest look at the true nature of the disease, M.E.  Plus, we are all sick, mostly at home, in bed, invisible to society and seemingly insignificant in a busy world. Out of sight, out of mind. I am just having a hard time grasping why my getting sick with an unusual disease with a funny name opens me, and my fellow sufferers, up to ridicule in public and the media? Is it really that inconceivable a disease exists which causes the body’s energy generating system to malfunction? Every other system in the body can malfunction, why not energy? And, how is that funny?

Disparage any other disease or patient and people will call out the bullies loud enough the media provides coverage for the next three news cycles. Never with M.E., ever. This being the case, perhaps we should be thankful our issues are publicly ignored and things like the IOM report media blitz happen rarely.

The hateful behavior of the public towards M.E. needs to stop. People battling M.E. face so much obstruction in their lives; they need an outpouring of support, not a load of hate. Trolls should be called out and shamed.  People with their snarky remarks should stop and realize they are a big part of the overall perception problem. It is a disgrace this is even an issue.

Last night’s troll comment crossed my line in the sand. I cannot watch this happen any longer. I am going to do something about this. I don’t know what yet, and I don’t know where I’m going to draw the energy from to do it, but I’m too angry not to do something.  I am open to ideas and anyone who wants to join me is welcome. “No Hate” needs to apply to the M.E. patient community too.

Beyond the Roll-Out

The Institute of Medicine rolled out their report, “Beyond Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, Refinding an Illness” on February 10th, and it is pretty much as expected. First glance gives readers the impression the committee nailed it but closer inspection reveals some serious flaws. But, at least, it is better than the 1994 Fukuda criteria clinicians are still using. And the committee gave us a close variation of the Canadian Consensus Criteria, which surprised more than a few in the M.E. community. The IOM committee also made it clear they do not expect this criteria to stand the test of time and recommended it be changed as new research studies are completed, in no later than five years. In the meantime, they tell us the report is a solid foundation from which to build.

Also, the IOM, almost apologetically, christened the disease with a new name: Systemic Exertion Intolerance Disease, or SEID, thus replacing the name hated by all, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.  Now, instead of people making jokes that they must be sick because they are “fatigued”, they are making jokes that they must be sick because they are “intolerant to exertion”.  Hardly an improvement but at least we don’t have a “syndrome” anymore; at last, we have a “disease”.  However, apparently the committee did not give thought to the fact SEID spelled backwards is DIES, which, I have to say as a patient, is kind of alarming.

In a move which still has advocates scratching their heads, the committee reported they could not justify joining most of the rest of the world in calling the disease the much preferred name, Myalgic Encephalomyelitis. They claim they could not find research to justify muscle pain and brain inflammation as dominant symptoms as the name M.E. implies. Advocates were quick, however, to point to the studies they could have referenced but chose to ignore. There are studies currently in progress which could provide further justification for use of the words myalgic and encephalomyelitis, so it begs the question why not simply defer renaming the disease until their recommended review in five years or less?  At least one committee member has been quoted as saying the committee fully expects the name to change at the future review, so why throw SEID into the mix at all?  Many patients, including myself, have decided to stick with M.E. when referring to the disease.

With the IOM report roll-out came a media blitz like nothing the M.E. community has ever seen. Hear ye one and all! The Institute of Medicine today declares Chronic Fatigue Syndrome is a real disease!  And, a real disease deserves a new name! Goodbye CFS, hello SEID. Articles appeared in print as soon as the press embarkgo was lifted at 11:00 a.m. EST. Publications ranging from major medical journals to home town newspapers published articles reporting the big news. Nearly every article featured a picture of a pretty caucasian woman, sporting beautifully manicured nails, well-coiffed and well-dressed, resting her tired head on her delicately placed hand so as not to smudge her perfect make-up; a stark contrast from the typical housebound, unkempt M.E. patient lying on a couch.

Each online article garnered its share of “expert” commentators.. As usual, there were arrogant doctors dismissing the disease and calling us simply depressed. And, there were the folks who used to have it for a few months but got better by doing x, y or z and those who exercised their way back to perfect health. The postive thinkers and nutrition nuts were out in force  And every article had an ample share of bullies calling patients lazy parasites on society, opining that it must be nice to lay around all day, doing nothing but collecting disability money.

Nightly news on all the major networks gave the IOM report release at least ninety seconds. Television news anchors generally looked amused as they dutifully read off  teleprompters that chronic fatigue syndrome is a real disease and that patients are no longer fatigued but exertion intolerant instead. Network news called in their television doctors to add their professional confirmation, although glaringly clear the doctors knew nothing about the disease and had not read a word of the report. NBC had to issue a correction after their television doctor reported that exertion intolerant patients frequently get better with exercise.

A television outlet, KOAT in Albuquerque, New Mexico, livened up their morning news segment by asking people on the street how much sleep they got the night before. No one bothered to read the report there either and they fed their viewers eighty seconds of outlandish “facts” and ten seconds of truth. The woman anchor ended the segment by telling her co-anchor, as an aside out the side of her mouth, she had been tired for 13 years. In a helpful touch to us tired sufferers, they announced they are going to feature their favorite Wakeup app in a future report.

This evening, two days after the roll out, the M.E. patient community was in a reflective mood on social media. It is as if we are experiencing collective post-exertional malaise. The IOM report had been much anticipated, and hotly contested. Now that we have it, and have had a chance to read and digest it, exhaustion from the exertion is taking a toll. We have fought hard for this disease to be recognized and validated. Now that the IOM committee gave us that validation, it leaves us pondering our next move or even if we have the physical and emotional ability to move at all.

One thing the IOM report roll-out made glaringly clear is how M.E. and M.E. patients are perceived in the eyes of an unknowing public and prejudiced medical profession. It is going to take so much work to turn those perceptions around. We won a big battle but it pales in comparison to the war that rages on. Advocates are questioning how much they have left to give to this cause. Some are leaving the fight, realizing their health will no longer permit them to give of themselves for the greater good.

IOM committee chairman Ellen Clayton, near the conclusion of the roll-out meeting, took a moment to speak personally to the M.E. community. She urged us to take this report and use it as fodder to secure the much needed research funding. She urged us to ACT UP, as the AIDS activists had done; to rise up and fight to make our government help. I understand others are urging the same. It is unfortunate they do not realize M.E. does not allow us to ACT UP. We are too sick to march on Washington D.C. We are too sick to lobby Congress as extensively as will be needed. We are too sick to stage awareness concerts. We are too sick to do much more than write a few letters, compose a few tweets and forward some e-mails. Our families give their all as our caregivers and have little left to fight for the cause on our behalf.

Every other major disease–and make no mistake M.E. is a major disease–has at least one celebrity spokesperson but, what celebrity wants to be associated with a disease the general public finds as fodder for jokes? Every major disease has at least one rich philanthropist to provide a financial base for their awareness and research efforts but who can afford being associated with a disease that invokes laughter? Every major disease has at least one corporate sponsor to underwrite awareness campaigns but what corporation wants to sponsor a bunch of tired, lazy people? And, as was made crystal clear over the past three days, unless M.E. has actually touched their lives, members of the general public are more inclined to make light of the disease than fight for the sufferers.

The Institute of Medicine panel formed a unanimous consensus and gave us a report which will be respected by those with the power to invoke real change. We have the needed validation to draw the attention of Congress and get the desperately needed research funding.  It is a tragedy the M.E. community may be too sick to use it and no one else cares enough to help.